A handyman who answers quickly and quotes low may still leave your parent's house in worse shape than before. Your job from a distance is to check the things a number cannot show you.

Local option: New Plan Care gives families in the St. Louis area in-home help so a parent can stay home: companionship, help with bathing and dressing, meals, and overnight care. Call (314) 405-0887.

Start with the license lookup

Many states and cities keep public records of licensed contractors and trades. Check the business name, the license number printed on their paperwork, and whether the license type matches the job. A general handyman may not be licensed for the trade work on your list. Ask what they can do without a specific license and what they would subcontract out.

Ask for proof of insurance

Request a certificate of insurance and check that it names the business and is current. Ask whether the policy covers injury to their workers and damage to the house. A helper without insurance leaves your parent carrying that risk.

Get a written scope

Ask for a written description of the work, what is included, what is not, who buys the parts, and what happens if they find more work once they start. A short written scope tells you more than a figure given on the phone. If they will only quote verbally, ask them to send the scope by email.

Test how they answer

Call the office line, not only a personal cell. Note whether someone answers, whether messages come back within the time they gave, and whether they can explain the job without rushing you. Ask for two references from recent jobs and call them with three questions: did they show up, did they finish, and was the final bill what they said it would be.

Compare on the same list

Put the same scope in front of two or three helpers and compare their answers, not just their totals. The one who asks good questions about access, the ladder, the water shutoff, and the parts is often the one who avoids a second visit.

What to do tonight

Write the job in three sentences, look up each business in the public license record, and send the same scope to two helpers. If you need a starting point for St. Louis, the local help page lists options for a parent in that area, but check each license yourself before you rely on any name.