A recurring cleaner can take real weight off the house, and can also bring a stranger into it on a fixed schedule. Before you book, decide what the cleaner is allowed to touch, what they must leave alone, and how you will know the work was done. Treat the arrangement as an agreement you can change or end, not a favor you hope will last. The Start Here page lays out the order to work through these decisions.
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Ask about screening and who sends the cleaner
Ask whether the company screens each cleaner, whether it carries insurance that covers damage or loss in your mother's home, and whether the same person comes each time. If the company sends whoever is free, ask how they tell you about a change. Ask who you call if something goes missing and how that claim is handled.
Settle the way in
Decide how the cleaner gets into the house, who holds that access, and what happens if your mother is home during the visit. Do not share a key or code until you know who will hold it and how it will be returned. Ask whether the company keeps a record of each entry.
Write the off-limits list
Put in writing that the cleaner does not sort, move, count, or hand out medicine, does not open mail or papers, and does not touch the pill organizer or the contents of the medicine cabinet. Medicine and paperwork stay with the family, the doctor, and the pharmacist. If you want the cleaner to pick up a prescription as an errand, make that a separate written task rather than an extra duty added on the fly.
Compare the scope
Ask exactly what is included: which rooms, whether the inside of the fridge and oven are part of the job, whether the crew brings its own supplies, and how the bathroom and kitchen are handled. Ask what is not included and whether extra work gets a separate written quote. Two services can sound alike on a phone call and differ sharply on these basics.
Agree on a check-back
Decide how you will know the work happened. Options include a short text after each visit, a photo of the kitchen, or a note from your local contact. Ask how changes to the schedule are made, how to pause the service, and how to end it. Read the cancellation terms before you book, not after the first invoice arrives.
Tonight
List the rooms you want cleaned, the rooms or items you want left alone, and the one person who will check the first visit. Then call the company, ask the questions above, and write down each answer.
What to leave with the cleaner
The written off-limits list, the entry plan, your mother's preferences in plain words, the name and number of your local contact, and your own phone number for questions. Ask the company to confirm the list in writing before the first visit.