When a home is cleared, the truck is rarely the biggest part of the total. Stairs, access, sorting time, and heavy items move the number far more than the volume alone. Pin those details down before you ask anyone for an estimate.
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Access
Stairs and carry distance matter most. A ground-floor room that opens onto the driveway is a different job from a second-floor room with a tight turn in the stairwell. Note the parking situation, whether the driveway is narrow, whether there is a gate, and whether the curb needs a permit. Photograph the path from the front door to the truck.
Volume and heavy items
List the rooms and the big pieces: appliances, mattresses, sofas, large cabinets, and anything that needs two people to lift. Heavy items often need a separate line or a larger truck. Ask whether the estimate covers them or adds a charge when they are found on the day.
Sorting time
Sorting takes the most hours. Keep, donate, and discard decisions made before the haulers arrive shorten the job. You can help with some of this from far away by reviewing photos with a local helper, but keep decisions belong to her and to the family. Set aside papers, documents, and personal items so nothing leaves by accident.
Disposal rules
Ask what the hauler will not take. Some electronics, paint, and certain chemicals usually need a separate drop-off. Ask whether donation pickup is included or billed separately, and whether the hauler will take items to a donation center for you.
Compare the quotes in writing
Ask each company whether the estimate is by load, by hour, or flat. Ask what would change the number after the walk-through, and whether a second trip costs more. A written estimate that lists your access notes is worth more than a verbal one. The Local help for a St. Louis parent page is a starting point for finding people to walk the house with you.
What to do tonight
Photograph each room, the stairs, the front path, and the parking space. Write the list of big items. Send the photos to whoever will walk the house or speak with the haulers.
What to leave with the doctor
Ask the doctor to describe, in plain words, the level of help she is likely to need in the coming months. A clear answer helps you decide whether this is a one-time clearing, a partial move, or a plan that will change again. Bring your list of rooms and items so the conversation stays concrete.